How long will it take for a love bird to get trained?

So my bf got me a love bird :) it is at his house right now and he said that the bird escaped from the cage and went into his room upstairs lol. When he gives me it I want to train it. I want it to be more relaxed and to get used to bein held and I want him/her to love me and my bf and his surroundings! How long will it take the bird to learn to be trained and To talk. Can it talk Alot? Or do I need to take it to a special trainer?